Is more sex what a man needs? Does quality matter? What turns on a man most? With these questions, I set out to find answers from the female sex experts out there.
I couldn’t stop thinking about SEX while wondering what topic to write about this morning.
A male reader left a comment to my post The Five Best Gifts A Woman Can Give to A Man, and said, “More sex is what a man needs. Men cannot train women in this area. Women need to teach other women.”
How do we learn about sex, really? Surely not from our parents, schools, or Hollywood movies.
Like most things, we probably learn from experiences for the most part. So is our sexual prowess only as good as that of our best lover?
If you are like Samantha in Sex and the City, you have a lot of experience on your side – among other positions – and you are probably a savvy sexual goddess.
But what if you are not? How and where can we learn to be better lovers?
The truth is, being sexually savvy is no less a part of being a woman than motherhood, and learning how to be a great lover is about excelling in all areas of womanhood – what Cycle Harmony is all about.
So is this something we can learn from other women, rather than from men?
With this question in mind, I’m setting out to find answers from the female sex experts out there.
The first thing I learned from sex expert Lou Paget is this:
“What men want isn’t a perfect figure, not physical beauty, not even expertise. What men want more than anything else is simply for us to be into it.”
What a relief!
The things women try to make us more sexually desirable! Maybe the answer is a lot simpler that we think – just relax, be in the moment and enjoy the pleasures.
It seems to be more important to have a sexy mind than a sexy body. The key lies in our own mind!
But there must be more to it. Why else would the ancient Chinese and Indian texts have dedicated thousands of pages on the art of love and sex?
I’m intrigued. What an exciting journey it will be to discover more on this topic. Do you have some questions or answers that you are willing to share? Look forward to hearing from you…
Been wet can also turn a guy on,bcos his mood for the sex will increase,showing that u are into him.
You’re right Maria. Acting as if is a great way to turn ourselves on. And when we’re turned on, we’re irresistible!
I’ve really noticed that a guy is going to be more into you if you feel good about yourself. Don’t put yourself down. Even if you don’t feel confident, make it look like you are. MAKE the guy want you by looking like you could care less what other people think.